Stuff My Girls Are Doing These Days

April 27, 2009 @ 7:58 pm | Filed under: Family

(As with my garden notes, I like to jot down these lists from time to time so I’ll remember what everyone was up to at this season or that.)

Jane, age 13 3/4—

• reading Agatha Christie until her eyes fall out
• crocheting (matching skirts for Rilla and herself—Rilla’s is finished; ain’t it sweet?)
• listening to Abba
• coloring in her Tesselights stained glass coloring book
• playing catch with her daddy
• reading Dragonsinger, lots of Josephine Tey, Homeless Bird
• exchanging smiles with “Somebaby,” as she calls him
• singing with Rilla
• picking lettuce for salad
• taking a watercolors class
• practicing for piano guild
• telling me cool stuff from Muse magazine
• figuring out the location of her Journey North mystery class


Rose, age 10 1/2—

• making spice cake
• rereading the Warriors books (first six)
• playing dolls with Rilla
• playing lots of piano, especially “Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds”
• picking peas (a few last stragglers)
• playing make-believe games with Beanie half the day
• writing letters
• painting
• letting Rilla and Wonderboy chase her around the house


Beanie, age 8—

• drawing pictures
• reading Warriors books more than anything else, but lots of other things too
• poring over the Nature Experiments books
• thinking about ways to get the monkeys in Zelda
• playing Hex Empire, or watching me play it
• with Rose, looking at optical illusions on my iPod (Eye Tricks is the name of the app)
• playing wolves


All the girls—

• lots and lots of Runescape
• reading As You Like It with me
• Wii Fit
• Wii Legend of Zelda Twilight Princess
• playing catch with their daddy
• watching X-Men cartoons
• watching Empire Strikes Back
• running through the sprinklers
• playing with the balls their uncle sent—a whole big boxful!

Comments

Comments RSS | TrackBack URI

  1. sarah says:

    Wow, what a great time they are having! This could be an advertisement for unschooling. And I’m very impressed with the lovely skirt Rilla is wearing – I’d love to see the one Jane made for herself.

    You won’t let her read Dragonflight until she’s older, I hope!

  2. Penny in VT says:

    Sounds like a whole lotta good goin’ on – my oldest is getting ready for Guild too, it’s almost become a sign of Spring around here!

    Rilla’s skirt is glorious – nice work!

  3. Sarah N. says:

    Sounds like they are all having so much fun. And what a great idea to simply make a list of their favorite activities. I always want to record more of what my girls are doing but I start writing a narrative and then abandon it because it takes too long.

  4. Lisa says:

    Sounds like purposeful, happy, busy kids! What’s “piano guild”??

  5. Eileen Smithdeal says:

    Lissa,
    In light of our recent conversations, you have absolutely nothing to worry about!!!(Not that you were worried!) Your children are so wonderful-I can just picture them in all of their pursuits throughout the day. Now, if everythig were planned, would they really be doing all these things on their own?(that’s supposed to be a rhetorical question :) .)

  6. Hannah says:

    Melissa, it’s neat to see how wide-ranging your girls’ interests are, and what great readers they are.
    Question for you: It looks like they also use the computer/Wii a good deal. How, if at all, do you regulate their screen time? How do you keep it from taking over their day, since those games are so addictive? (We’re struggling with this issue, can you tell?) Would love to hear your thoughts.

  7. Melissa Wiley says:

    Sarah, yes, she has only read the Harper Hall series, which I loved too. :)

    Hannah, re screen time–with three kids taking turns, balance seems to happen naturally. Bean and Rose like to watch each other play and then they’ll go play pretend games based on the computer/Wii games. They make up/act out stories for their Runescape characters, Zelda characters, etc. Wii games tend to draw in the whole family (whoever’s home) and that’s lots of fun. When a game is new to them (like Runescape, which they started playing not long ago), they spend more time at it, immersing for a while. I’m like that too. And then other interests crowd the screen games to the background. Some days Jane spends hours crocheting and listening to music. Some days she’s reading almost all day. Some days it’s a Runescape marathon. Kind of like the way toddlers sometimes eat, perhaps—all protein for a day or two, then the next day they want nothing but fruit, and the day after that they keep asking for slices of bread. :)

  8. Yvonne says:

    We’re in the midst of this struggle too; though our issue is the Boomberang channel included in our new cable package. The children love the old stuff–Pink Panther, Speed Buggy, Richie Rich, etc.–and their parents do too. Very hard to stop watching, esp. the marathons. I think you’re right about the ebbs and tides of viewing, non-viewing. I also find (leap on) comfort in seeing my 12 year old crochet or craft while she watches or my 9 year old sort his junk mail.

  9. Mimi says:

    Oh,reading this made me smile. My boys do the same…wii marathons and then they will become the characters in long batches of pretend play. I love how you shared in your comment above about how children may be engrossed in one thing all day, another the next. That confirmed some things that I had been thinking about….in a good way:)

  10. Kelly says:

    I really enjoyed this list. :) My daughter is 14 months, and it’s so hard to envision a time when she will be off doing her own thing on occasion so I will be able to do my own thing, y’know? So it’s good to be reminded that we’ll get there eventually!

Leave a Reply

Comment a lot? Register here. Already registered? Login here.

Want your own gravatar? Get one here.


Welcome to

the Bonny Glen—

the online home of

children's book author

Melissa Wiley




In the Archives

you'll find posts about:


and much more!



booknotes2


Contact Me

My review policy


 Subscribe to my feed

Subscribe to my comments by email or feed


Where to find unabridged Martha & Charlotte Books


My Bonny Clan

Jane, 14 yrs old
Rose, 11 yrs
Beanie, 8 yrs
Wonderboy, 6 yrs
Rilla, 3 yrs
Huck, 11 months old

and Scott, the love of my life



Every Face I Look at Seems Beautiful






Book Log 09


December


The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie
by Alan Bradley
(notes)


November


The Diamond Age:
Or, a Young Lady's
Illustrated Primer

by Neal Stephenson
(described in this post)

The Unit
by Ninni Holmqvist

Betsy's Wedding
by Maud Hart Lovelace


October


Wintergirls
by Laurie Halse Anderson

Speak
by Laurie Halse Anderson


September


Heaven to Betsy
by Maud Hart Lovelace
(notes)

Meet the Malones
by Lenora Mattingly Weber

Beany Malone
by Lenora Mattingly Weber

When You Reach Me
by Rebecca Stead

North Park: A San Diego Urban Village, 1896-1946
by Donald P. Covington
(parts)

Betsy and Tacy Go Over
the Big Hill

by Maud Hart Lovelace
(review)

Viola in Reel Life
by Adriana Trigiana

Twisted
by Laurie Halse Anderson


August


Fables Vol. 1: Legends in Exile
by Bill Willingham and Lan Medina

The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate
by Jacqueline Kelly

Pretty Dead
by Francesca Lia Block

The Pretend Wife
by Bridget Asher

The Forest of Hands and Teeth
by Carrie Ryan

Lost
by Jacqueline Davies


July


A Room with a View
by E. M. Forster


June already??


The Chosen One
by Carol Lynch Williams

Sweethearts
by Sara Zarr

Catching Fire
by Suzanne Collins

Genesis
by Bernard Beckett

The Bite of the Mango
by Mariatu Kamara
with Susan McClelland

Ender's Game
by Orson Scott Card

Chocolate Unwrapped
by Rowan Jacobsen
(notes)

The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks
by E. Lockhart

The Actor and the Housewife
by Shannon Hale
(notes)


May


The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society
by Mary Ann Shaffer
and Annie Barrows

George & Sam: Two Boys, One Family, and Autism
by Charlotte Moore

Gilead: A Novel
by Marilynne Robinson

Shakespeare Wrote for Money
by Nick Hornby

The Rosary
by Karen Edmisten
(review)


April


The Mysterious Benedict Society
by Trenton Lee Stewart
(notes)

Confessions of a Jane Austen Addict
by Laurie Viera Rigler

The Hunger Games
by Suzanne Collins
(notes)

The Daughter of Time
by Josephine Tey
(notes)

Housekeeping vs. the Dirt
by Nick Hornby
(notes here and here)

Elephants Can Remember
by Agatha Christie

Fruitless Fall: The Collapse of the Honey Bee and the Coming Agricultural Crisis
by Rowan Jacobsen
(notes)


March


Little Brother
by Cory Doctorow

"The Sisters"
by James Joyce

Damosel: In Which the Lady of the Lake Renders a Frank and Often Startling Account of her Wondrous Life and Times
by Stephanie Spinner
(I interviewed her in this post)

The Film Club: A Memoir
by David Gilmour

Stolen
by Vivian Vande Velde
(notes)

Secret History of the Authority: Hawksmoor
by Mike Costa and Fiona Staples

Coraline
by Neil Gaiman
(notes)

Down and Out in the Magic Kingdom
by Cory Doctorow
(notes)

Rules
by Cynthia Lord
(notes)

The Plain Princess
by Phyllis McGinley

The Sherwood Ring
by Elizabeth Marie Pope

The Polysyllabic Spree
by Nick Hornby


February


(notes)

The Year We Disappeared: A Father-Daughter Memoir
by Cylin Busby and John Busby

Murder on the Orient Express
by Agatha Christie

Pride and Prejudice
by Jane Austen (yes, again)

Austenland: A Novel
by Shannon Hale

"The Curious Case of Benjamin Button"
by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Washington Square
by Henry James


January


(notes)

Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books
by Azar Nafisi

Daisy Miller
by Henry James

The Great Gatsby
by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Lolita
by Vladimir Nabokov

The Twilight of American Culture
by Morris Berman

The Music Teacher
by Barbara Hall

The Moving Finger (Miss Marple Mysteries)
by Agatha Christie

The Ten-Year Nap
by Meg Wolitzer

The Uncommon Reader: A Novella
by Alan Bennett

World Made by Hand
by James Howard Kunstler



Book Log 08



Hey, what happened to all those booklists you used to have in your sidebars?

They're still accessible at melissawiley.typepad.com, where this blog lived from January 2005-March 2008. You can also find all my Lilting House posts there, or try the search bar here. All my previous Bonny Glen and Lilting House posts have been imported to this site.






The Green Ways of Growing


Some Breezy Open


Scary Junkyard Dogs


The Quiet Joy


Way Leads on to Way


At the Museum


Balboa Park Posts




Recent Comments




Recent Posts



A Word about How I Blog

Every day is complicated, messy, and full of friction. And every day has glorious or cozy moments worth celebrating. I seldom bother to chronicle the friction and the mess because writing time is fleeting and precious—and childhood even more so. I’d rather capture the small joys that I might forget—or take for granted—if I don’t take time to set them down in words.

(Excerpt from this post about Real Life, quoted here because I don't want anyone to be under the impression that things are always perfect around here! Heaven knows we are anything but. Perfect, frictionless, orderly? Nope. Happy? Most of the time!)




Twittered

Twitter Updates



    Be Like the Bird


    Be like the bird
    Who, pausing in flight
    On limb too slight,
    Feels it give way beneath her,
    Yet sings,
    Knowing she has wings.

    —Victor Hugo






    bgup3



    My Big List of Booklists


    Favorite Fictional Families


    The Barcelona Journal


    Tidal Homeschooling



    chestertonbaby



    snidely200

    boys


    rosebaby

    3littles

    3932141947_a5a702c941

    rillachin

    bbb


    “Exploration,” says John Stilgoe, author of Outside Lies Magic, “is a liberal art, because it is an art that liberates, that frees, that opens away from narrowness. And it is fun.”

    Yes: it is so, so much fun, and that is why I write these posts all chattery with excitement over this or that connection the kids made today. (Or that I made myself!) I know I get carried away, but that’s the point, isn’t it, that way leading on to way has carried me away?

    And yet—and yet—I think we are at once ‘carried away’ and made more fully present in the now, more rooted, by these relationships between ideas about things past and future. The joy of connection makes me want to celebrate this moment, this brief encounter with wild-haired child and broad-trunked tree, bus going by, sign on church wall, Scottish warlord creeping over the tower wall and startling the English soldier’s wife who has just put her babe in arms to sleep by crooning that the Black Douglas won’t get him. Child, laughing, shouting “Dinna ye be sae sure aboot that!” across the courtyard outside the library. How can I not celebrate this freedom?

    (from a post called Way Leads on to Way)


    Our Family "Rule of Six"

    Six Things to Include in Your Child's Day:

    meaningful work
    imaginative play
    good books
    beauty (art, music, nature)
    ideas to ponder and discuss
    prayer

    Whence It Came





    Meta