The Season of Becky

July 15, 2009 @ 7:53 pm | Filed under: Books, Family Adventures

Summer did come, and summer was the season of Becky Jack. The kids were free (free!) from the constraints of homework and school days. And they would go stark raving insane with nothing to do, so the Jack home became a summer camp: summer projects (raising insects, quilting, coin collecting, studying kinds of clouds, family read-a-thons), sports (swimming, rafting, hiking, Little League), field trips (zoo, amusement park, bird preserve, lakes, mountains, rivers, meadows), service projects (neighborhood widow’s yard care, food bank drives), and just good hard play from sunup to sundown.

The Actor and the Housewife by Shannon Hale (see my post and our discussion)

Well, it couldn’t be more obvious that Becky Jack, the heroine of Shannon Hale’s novel, is a homeschooler at heart—probably an unschooler. Every time I read about her exultation over summer or her dejection over the return to school schedules, I wanted to have her over for sweet tea and a heart-to-heart about how she might want to think about a more permanent freedom from the constraints she bristled against.

But I didn’t quote that passage to toot a horn for the joy of unschooling. “The season of Becky” (a recurring phrase in the novel) has been in my head all week as my children and I zoom around town to and from a series of activities which are a departure from our usual routine. We’re all of a sudden spending a lot of time at the Y for swimming and gymnastics, and I finally got around to getting everyone caught up on dentist appointments. The desert heat has settled upon our corner of San Diego County, and on the days we aren’t at the Y, we’re holing up indoors after 10 a.m., playing lots of Wii and other games until the evening shade transforms the yard into a cool and breezy haven once more.

It’s still light out when Scott gets home from work, and I’m reluctant to leave him for the two evening hours we’ve carved out as my precious and fleeting work time. I make bruschetta with tomatoes and basil from the garden, and linger in the kitchen longer than I ought, dipping crusty bread into the garlicky, lemony juice, listening to Scott’s stories of pre-Comic-Con office bustle. Sparrows and finches gossip at the feeder, and the bees are slow and undulating in their flight, their saddlebags laden. A monarch butterfly dips low, low, and lands on a rosy-orange blossom, uncurling its delicate tongue to sip from the cup of nectar. The children are playing in the grass, or else they’ve disappeared, called away by their books and their music.

Summer has never been the Season of Lissa—it’s spring that sets my heart soaring, always has been—but I am enjoying this Season of Becky, and feeling quite Beckyish indeed as the bright, hot days of July and August unroll before us. I’m a little envious of Becky’s neighborhood, with its impromptu backyard softball and kick-the-can—we used to live in a neighborhood like that in Virginia, and a very special place it was—but our summer rhythm is its own brand of nice, and I love knowing it is stretching out before us for many weeks to come, with Comic-Con (a major event in these parts, where “these parts” = both this city and this household) anchoring the middle, and a local unschooling conference waiting for us in September, promising to be a lively and colorful celebration of this lifestyle I love so much.*

*And in the spirit of not sugarcoating, I’ll add that at the very moment I finished typing that last sentence, a minor household volcano erupted, and in the space of three minutes, three different members of this mostly-happy family came at me with various shades of Bad Mood. Sometimes this wife-and-mother thing is a bit like finding yourself in the middle of a spontaneous game of paintball and you’re the one whose job it is to wipe the paint spatters off all the players while ducking and dodging the flying color-bombs yourself. But, you know, it’s probably a sign of a very successful and satisfying summer day that people are falling apart at the bedtime end of it. Off I go now to see if I can mop up some more paint.

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  1. Wonderful post. I’d say fall is my season – we live “the Becky life” from Sept thru late Nov. including house/garden projects and books by the gallon in front of the fireplace. So good.

  2. Fall is more my season too but this year, I’m thriving on summer more than I ever have, maybe because my girls are now old enough to enjoy more of what summer has to offer. I long for the ease it sounds like Becky has with groups of kids in and out of the house and creating chaos all around her. I have to work hard to shut down my control and not get overwhelmed even though I secretly long for our house to be a center of life for neighborhood kids. The Actor and the Housewife is on it’s way to me as part of a big book order. I can’t wait to see what I think of Becky.

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  4. Delicious post!! You’re a brilliant writer, Lissa.

  5. I don’t know, Sweetie–I’d say it’s just your nature to sugarcoat things and that’s fine by me!

    Thank you for this reminder to make EVERY day part of my season. And with that said, I’m off to dip into my new book from the library, I Am One of You Forever. 🙂

  6. It could be the Season of Lissa if you attended the LOST panel at Comic-Con, no? And gave us a review?

  7. Hannah, LOL! And then I could have my own The Actor and the Housewife stories to tell, eh?

    I’m trying to figure out how to simultaneously attend the James Cameron/Peter Jackson “future of film” panel AND the Dollhouse meet-and-greet on Friday night. I want to ask Joss Wheedon what his favorite books were as a kid. 🙂

  8. […] Hannah makes a good point. San Diego Comic-Con is just a week away, and I’ve been poring over the schedule. The LOST panel, oh I’m there. And there’s a Dollhouse thing I plan to attend, baby permitting. The “Female Power Icons in Pop Culture” panel with Sigourney Weaver and Elizabeth Mitchell (that’s Juliet to you LOST fans) sounds interesting, but it’s early on, before my parents arrive to take over the child-wrangling. […]

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