Archive for May, 2013

May Bookletter is in the mail

May 31, 2013 @ 7:26 pm | Filed under: Books

My Bookletter went out to subscribers this afternoon. If you’d like to subscribe for monthly email delivery, click here. To view it on the web, click here. And yep, I sure did call Rilla a six-year-old—twice. Scott caught it right after I hit send. In my defense, her April birthday was, what, ten minutes ago?

Makers Gotta Mess

May 28, 2013 @ 7:48 pm | Filed under: Art, Assorted and Sundry

messy desk with circuitry board

Enjoyed this article today: Why NonGeek Parents Have the Advantage in Parenting Young Makers. The whole piece was interesting but this bit especially grabbed me, because it’s singing my own song:

The parent panel was surprisingly united on several points. “Makers gotta make, so if you can’t get their stuff (maker treasure) under control just find a way to live with it.”  “Kudos for letting your kids disassemble, repurpose, void warranties, and explore fearlessly!” “Allow projects to take time and make room for play and exploration–even if it means lots of projects are in progress at once (if you aren’t going to work on it in the next six months maybe it can hang out in the back of the closet for now.)”

Whenever I speak to homeschooling groups, I urge something similar. Never underestimate the importance of freedom to be messy. Creativity is a messy, messy business. Art is messy. Writing is messy. Sewing, woodworking, robotics, cooking, all these awesome pursuits we want our kids to dive into, all these handcrafts and skills we love to see them develop—they require room to get sloppy. The paint-spattered corner, the room abandoned to fabric scraps and bits of Sculpey, the table overtaken by wires and circuit boards…

I know it isn’t always easy, especially for type-A parents, to live with the clutter and chaos that so often surrounds a creative mind, but there are ways to compromise. For us, it means keeping the front of the house reasonably tidy, one main room where people can count on an uncluttered space, and letting the rest of the house wear a jumble of raw materials with abandon and zest. The girls’ room is overrun right now with wand-making supplies. The house smells like hot glue. Every time Scott looks at me he finds another piece of glitter on my face—I don’t even know where it’s coming from; it’s in the air.

Along with Freedom to Be Messy goes Lots and Lots of Down Time…that’s part two of my refrain: give ’em time to be bored, time to stare into space, time to tinker, time to obsess. So much of my work as a writer happens when I’m far from my keyboard…I’m writing while I’m gardening, while I’m doing dishes, while I’m curled up under a blanket doing a crossword puzzle. I may look idle, but I’m not. Things are churning in my head. Scott used to do his best writing on the walk home from the subway. Now, far from NYC, sans commute, he stands in the backyard, his mind working while Huck runs circles around him. Our kids know that we’re absent sometimes—lost in our thoughts, working something out—and they understand, they know we try to make up for it by being extra-present, fully engaged, in other parts of the day. But also by giving them that same kind of mind-space in return: big chunks of the day unscheduled, unspoken for. Let me get out of your hair so you can put glitter in it.

Attention Odd Ducks Everywhere

May 25, 2013 @ 7:27 am | Filed under: Books

I have an interview with Cecil Castellucci, author of Odd Duck, over at GeekMom today. We discuss quirky friends, writing habits, and mango salsa—and her wonderful book!

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Did it have heffalumps?

May 24, 2013 @ 6:13 am | Filed under: Assorted and Sundry, Huck

Huck staggers out, sleep-rumpled. His first words of the day: “What does woozy mean?”

Me: “It means you feel dizzy, like you might fall over. Is someone woozy?” (Peering anxiously past him to see if one of his sisters is ill.)

Huck: “I had a very woozy dream.”

Draw Squad

May 17, 2013 @ 7:23 pm | Filed under: Art, Photos

photo (11)

Rainforest Menagerie

May 15, 2013 @ 7:58 pm | Filed under: Art

Draw Rainforest Animals

Draw Rainforest Animals by Doug DuBosque, a years-ago gift to Jane from her aunt, has been seeing a lot of action around here lately. Excellent tutorials and such fun material.

boa
Boa by Beanie

sloth
Sloth by Rilla

quetzalco
Quetzal, Spider Monkey, Kinkajou by Rilla

I know, right?

May 14, 2013 @ 7:51 pm | Filed under: Assorted and Sundry

I’m writing like crazy—everywhere but here. Not to mention spamming my Facebook friends with wedding photos today because Scott & I are celebrating our 19th anniversary.

He wrote a post about his proposal. Spoiler alert: I said yes.

Here’s my Mother’s Day present from Rilla: a quetzal, a spider monkey, and a kinkajou. (Tried to upload it here but WordPress is being persnickety.)

Happy mid-May already! Sheesh!

Business as Usual

May 2, 2013 @ 1:53 pm | Filed under: Photos

dinosaurs and dot paints

Thicklebit Mug for Mother’s Day

May 2, 2013 @ 5:55 am | Filed under: Thicklebit

We’ve added a new mug to the Thicklebit shop, just in time for Mother’s Day. 🙂

thicklebit_mothers_day_large_mug

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